FIXING BREAKS IN RELATIONSHIPS

#Relationships #Boys #Girls #FriendZoned #Friends

What causes problems and break up in relationships

And how to fix them....

Many of us have that one friend or many friends that ruin our relationship one way or the other, intentionally or unintentionally.

#ForTheGirls

A friend shouldnt have the Almighty say in your relationship, if you meet someone you love, fine. I agree that you would ask your friends what they think about that person, some might not like him/her.

Just because your friend dosen`t like the person, you begin to push the person away and in the course begin to dislike the person. You need to take your choices by yourself and not something that someone told you.

For the ladies it is a normal thing for your friend to feel like the third wheel, she might or most likely would try to stop you from going on dates because she dosent want to be alone, this is normal actually it is bound to happen but don`t let her stop you from giving your boyfriend the attention he needs, you will have to find a way to spend time with both of them in order to prevent issues and stop quarells. And if you are sure that kind of friend that constantly needs attention, you have to understand that she is now in a relationship, you might be sabotaging her relationship without knowing.

#ForTheBoys

It was a party. The one your friend invited you to. You wanted to invite "her" but your friends advised you against it. You agreed, in your mind you are like "What could possibly go wrong". During the party, you are having a drink and "she" calls and you are about to answer then a friend snatches the phone and tells you that tonight is just for fun, that you would talk to her later. You cut the call and continue you own endeavor.

Once again in your mind, you are like "She would understand, she always does".

Clap for your self....By tomorrow when you are sober, you would realize the kind of drastic turn your relationship would take. When she would find out that you went partying and didn't receive her calls she would be thinking that you are now tired of her.

#BoysAndGirls

When you have one little argument with your partner, your friends are so quick to tell you to break up, or maybe you find your partner cheating on you and your friends tell you to do the same. I tell you that friend is probably leading you to your downfall, sometimes it might just be a misunderstanding and then you would worsen the matter by cheating. The best advice is to talk to your partner about it. Let them lay out their excuses.

It would be hard but try to understand but when the cheating becomes a normal habit, thats when you will break up. There are certain friends who flirt with your lover, they might see it as a classic funny joke but it could become something worst. To be sincere, never trust your friend blindly with your lover, it might just be a mistake that would happen but it would be harder to forget because it was your friend.

Prevention is better than cure, it might even be the worst if they fall in love. You would lose your lover and your friend at the same time. Telling your everything that happens in your relationship is not always good, you are a grown up and should be able to settle little matters, it wouldn`t be nice when your lover finds out that your friend knows so much when he/she is keep in certain issues a secret to their friends.

Friends who remind you about the past relationships even when they know that you are in a relationship can be very dangerous. Be careful about them. If your friend dosen`t respect you. They are going to create a big rift between you and your partner, you should talk to such friends and don't let them ruin your relationship, act quickly.

So many friends would make you look bad in front of your date, they would see it as a joke, they would laugh over it, while your date takes it serious. Friends that know your dirty secrets can even pull your legs or threaten 'jokingly' that they would tell your partner. You have to be very careful such friends could actually have a big right with you and ruin you. If your friend has pulled your legs about telling your partner about your dirty secrets so much, to be sincere, if you are serious about that person just let the person know about the secret. It would be so much worse if your friend runs their mouth. It would be a big big issue.

Friends are friends, they should know the boundaries when it comes to your relationship, your lover is for only you and not you and your friend so don't drag your friend into all relationship matters, mainly ladies.