PARENTS AND TEEN ISSUES

#Parents #FindingFaults #Teenagers #ParentalLove

You ever felt that your parents do not appreciate you, or the feeling that what ever you do dosen`t please them, they don`t acknowledge the good things you do, but criticize you on a daily basis for your faults. You seem to do all the chores and when you want to take a rest, you are being screamed at for being lazy.

Most teenagers and children pass through this ordeal on a daily basis and this has a severe setback to the children. From my research I have come to a conclusion that both the children's and their parents have a great part to play to bring forth a happy family.

#ForTeenagers

Here, most teenagers have a feeling that as they grow, most rules do not apply to them anymore. A certain feeling comes up that they are all knowing and should not be corrected if they make a fault. They seem to follow their friends opinion and don't even ponder to hear their parents advice. This takes place when such individual begins secondary school and crosses over.

We still have types of teenagers who are loyal but are under the harsh influence of parents. Their lives are being restricted to certain places and these affects them socially, mentally and eventually academically.

This content`s main aim is to actually reach out to parents, because most of them do not know how their children feel.

#ForParents

You child wakes up, greets you, does all the house chores and decides to take a rest, use a gadget or watch television. Most parents in this condition jump into quick conclusions and scream at them, emphasizing that they spend their whole time on gadgets and rest. And at times, they do not acknowledge them for the good work done. The child at this point feels devastated and left out. This expression may not be shown in the open, but inside the person is very hurt.

If your child has an habit, that you don't like simply call him or her and talk softly, explain the reasons you don't like such and what the child should do to please you. And always endeavor to listen to their point of view, and try your possible best to amend life towards what he/she fantasizes.

Another ranging issue, that can bring about Hatred between the teenager and the parents is judging the person of his/her past mistakes at a high scale. No matter the mistake that your child makes, you have the permission to scream and scold and do other things but that should be for the moment. Give him/her some time and talk to the person, tell him what he/she did was wrong and that it could ruin their life.

Ensure to show affection and show forgiveness, this brings a lot of warmth into the child`s mind and the person feels relieved. Use of gadgets should not be a problem because nearly everyone is developing and we are in a technological world. What am trying to say is that once in a while, if you see your child using a gadget, do not jump into conclusion or molest the child because it brings about hurt.

At times, the use of this gadgets usually get out of hands in which the teenager has sleepless nights and this could affect his or her health. At this point, seizing the gadget might come to your mind but wait and find out the reason he/she was awake. Could it be assignments, research or chatting. If it is for an irregular reason, you advise and seize it so he/she learns.

Parents always endeavor to get closer to your children, find out their problems and life will be cool.